David, I'm not a doctor, but let me provide some thoughts on your situation. I will assume that striae (http://www.complicatedeyes.org/striae.htm) does not exist as you say this has been ruled out.
Movement under the eye lid with pressure disrupting vision quality, and that a contact lens of any power providing improved vision, indicates two things. One is that this is something that should be able to be resolved. The other is that it appears to be a problem with your epithelium. The epithelium is the outermost layer of cells on the cornea.
The unusually long recovery time, fluctuation in vision, ability to disrupt vision with light pressure on the cornea, and the clarity of vision with a contact lens indicates that your epithelium is not healing correctly, or is not holding on to the underlying cornea appropriately. It may be moving about and scrunching up like warm Jello.
This type of epithelial problem may not have been able to be diagnosed before surgery, but the LASIK process may have disrupted a delicate balance and the epithelium is now moving on its own.
Allowing time to heal is undoubtedly a good idea, but if this does not resolve, it may be a good idea to have the epithelium removed and allow it to grow anew. Corneal epithelium are the fastest reproducing cells in the human body. If the epithelium is not stable after removal and regrowth, it may be necessary to remove the epithelium again, apply a very light dusting of excimer laser energy, and allow the epithelium to cover the treated area again. Think of this as rebooting the epithelium.
Although you say you have ruled them out, I would first look to LASIK induced dry eye (http://www.complicatedeyes.org/dry_eye_treatment.htm) and striae as the culprit. If these are reasonably ruled out, epithelial basement membrane dystrophy may be the problem.
Glenn Hagele
http://www.USAEyes.org
I am not a doctor.