Martin,
I suggest that you discuss with your primary doctor exactly what technology was used for your surgery. It appears that there is not a very clear line of communication. Before either of us condemns the doctor, allow the opportunity for an explanation.
Your progressive myopia is rather surprising. It is not totally unheard of, but normally hyperopic treatment regresses not progresses. The lack of responsiveness from your second opinion doctor means that you still dont have the information you need. It is the prerogative of another doctor to not get involved, but you need to find a doctor who will provide a full evaluation and give you the straight answers. If you need help in this regard, feel free to contact me directly.
If the halo in your dominant eye is in low light environments, such as driving, that is very commonly caused by high order aberrations (HOA) called spherical aberration or coma. This can be evaluated with a wavefront diagnostic that will measure all your HOA. Depending upon the situation, an enhancement surgery with a wavefront-guided ablation may be appropriate.
Whether or not you should have an enhancement will be your decision, but it appears to me that you have not yet attained all the facts necessary to have an informed opinion. A serious talk with your primary surgeon seems in order, and a second opinion from someone who will get involved seems like a good plan.
BTW, by getting involved, I mean be willing to diagnose any existing problems and provide you with a prognosis. At this time, that appears to be all you need. A second opinion doctor may not desire to participate in any litigation or provide continued care, and it is perfectly appropriate for a second doctor to decline non-emergency care. In any case, the first step is just to get an independent opinion of where you are today. What to do after you have that information is the next step.
The potential risks of an enhancement surgery are essentially the same as with the initial surgery. The flap can be lifted for years after LASIK. The flap does heal, but it is possible to separate the flap at the interface (see http://www.usaeyes.org/faq/subjects/complete.htm). It appears that you really do not need to be in a rush about this decision. I would check with your primary doctors policy for retreatments. It may be that after a certain time enhancements will be with an additional charge.
The issue of how much nearsightedness to remain for monovision is one that is IMO best determined by the use of contact lenses. Start with 1.00 diopter residual myopia contact and adjust up or down from there. When you find a correction that works for you, that correction should be the target if you have an enhancement surgery.
Glenn Hagele
Council for Refractive Surgery Quality Assurance
http://www.USAeyes.org
http://www.ComplicatedEyes.org
I am not a doctor.